Comfort is Your Enemy
Over time I have been to a lot of seminars and other training events and listened to the stories of a lot of the presenters. What has amazed me is the common thread that so many of the really successful entrepreneurs had. If you have been to many of these events have you noticed how many of them have rags to riches stories.
It is the typical fairytale, they were on the streets or poor or abused or a labourer, in some sort of situation where being a millionaire and a respected person seemed an unlikely, possibly impossible, future for them. Or it certainly seemed that way to outsiders looking in. They then have gone against all the odds and proved people wrong.
This got me thinking, do I have to go broke before I can be successful? Why was this rags to riches story so common? It took me a little while to work out. All these people had nothing, or not much, to lose by getting out there and going for it. They generally worked hard at developing a system or an idea and were determined to get somewhere.
So why don't we get so many stories from presenters saying I was doing this great job, getting paid lots of money and just decided I wanted a change? You do get some and again there is a common thread in them. If you listen carefully you will notice they talk about have some great desire for something, maybe a different lifestyle, could be helping people. There was always some burning reason for them to change.
It is that burning desire that is missing for many people looking to change their path. Comfort can be your worst enemy. You can say to yourself, if this doesn't work then I can keep doing my job or I might watch TV tonight instead of trying to get my business up and running. The big thing is that you can do this and you won't suffer, go without food or be on the street. When you think of many of the rags to riches stories, many of these people didn't have that comfort, it was do something or be destined for a life of poverty or discomfort.
Do you think that would help motivate you?
We all have our own comfort zones and I am not talking about the recliner in front of the TV. I am talking about behaviour and activities that we are comfortable doing. It is like doing the same job for a while, you get used to what you have to do and it becomes comfortable. Going to a new job can involve different people, new tasks and so on which can initially be outside your comfort zone.
Getting a business going or changing your life in some way involves stepping outside your comfort zone. This means discomfort, not always as easy as jogging along doing the same things. To keep stepping out of your zone you need a good reason, a burning desire. Do you have one?
So next time you feel you are not making the changes in your life that you want or things aren't moving along fast enough for you, check whether your comfort zone is holding you back. Are you holding back on activities that you know will move you forward, activities that are outside your current comfort zone? Challenging your comfort zone is a key to reaching your goals.
Go for it!
Nicky Foote is a success coach and successful publisher of quality eBooks and software, giving practical information for practical living. Information to help you enhance your life, lifestyle and family, assist in your business and improve your leisure time. Visit www.toplinepublications.com today to instantly download ebooks of your choice.
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